`create:finish` leaves the merge local until `create:release` pushes it, so
`main` is routinely ahead of its upstream between a merge and a release. The
branch front door demanded an exact match and refused until it was pushed,
forcing a manual `git push` that the model deliberately keeps out of it.
Reject only a `main` that is behind its upstream — matching `create:finish`,
which already tolerates being ahead — and record why pushing from `finish` was
rejected instead. The push stays with `create:release`, so the merge remains
reviewable locally, and the known issue about the deadlock is gone.
Resolves: backlog task "Resolve the finish/push tension".